After a 37 year marriage I found myself divorced and dating just as I turned 60. I hadn't dated in 40 years and boy, have things changed.
I was scared and clumsy, and at almost 6' tall, really self-conscious about my body. I had absolutely no idea how to talk to men, and flirting was totally beyond me. I didn't even know how to go on a date. My only experience with men, other than my husband, was in a business setting so I treated all my dates like business meetings. I simply didn't know any better. I was vulnerable and frankly, a hot mess.
So after bumbling around for the first year and going on more coffee dates than I can count, I started researching this thing called dating. I read every book I could find and watched every video that spoke to me. The most interesting thing that I discovered was that I was focused on the wrong person.
I spent all my time hoping to find someone who liked me - rather than looking for someone who I liked and wanted to spend time with. Once I truly embraced this concept, I shifted my mindset and learned some basic flirting skills. My dating life changed and I started having fun!
As I mingled with other women over 50 I was amazed at how many smart, attractive, successful women felt the same way as I did. They were frustrated with dating and tired of attracting weirdos and losers. They were ready to take back control of their love life and date great guys.
So I took all my research and combined it with my 10+ years of coaching experience and created my own coaching program, Date Great Guys.
This program is specifically designed for women 50 and over who want a step-by-step Recipe for Romance that outlines the 5 key ingredients. It includes practical tips and tools along with some powerful mindset shifts to really make you feel beautiful and worthy of love from the inside out.
This is a great program for you if you're starting over and just beginning to date or you have been dating for a while but are frustrated with the type of men you're attracting. It's all in the energy shift and you can learn more here.
There's a ton of free resources here too, so take a look at my blog posts or come to some of my workshops. My goal is to help you gain more confidence so you can feel less stressed and have more fun on your journey to finding love.
Remember to always keep your heart open, you never know when you'll find love.